SEEING GHOSTS
The New York Times - A Notable Book of 2021 * NPR Books We Love Pick * TIME’s Must-Read Book of 2021
Good Housekeeping Book Club Pick * Barnes & Noble Best Book of 2021
PRAISE
“Kat Chow’s memoir, ‘Seeing Ghosts,’ is a memorial to her mother delivered in a graceful, captivating voice. … A certain kind of sorrow lingers because a part of us wants it and wills it to persist, and Chow artfully and intelligently maps which kind of grief this is.”
—”Kat Chow On How Mourning Is Like Taxidermy,” Gaiutra Bahadur for The New York Times Book Review
"Readers familiar with Chow’s reporting on NPR will not be surprised at her storytelling skills, which shine even more brightly here. This haunting, deeply moving, and beautifully written chronicle of the immense grief that once tore Chow's family apart and now binds them will resonate with every reader."
—Booklist, starred review
“As a loving tribute, Chow vibrantly tells the story of her mother’s life with great dexterity and in luminous detail. … By uniting family memories, elements of Chinese culture, and an intimate perspective, Chow wraps tragedy and history into an affecting memorial. A powerful remembrance of a family unmoored by the loss of its matriarch.”
—Kirkus Reviews
“It's filled with a kind of assured, hard-won wisdom about navigating loss, and the prose is so achingly precise and elegant – it's beautiful, but never showily or self-consciously so – that you'll be surprised every time she articulates an insight with a clear, implacable weight that finds you, and lands on you hard. Even if you haven't lost a parent, you'll find the book intimately relatable and warmly familiar.
—”Pop Culture Happy Hour: What’s Making Us Happy,” Glen Weldon
“Kat Chow dares to explore the lingering dynamics of her family’s shared grief in her breathtaking debut memoir, Seeing Ghosts…. It’s a bittersweet meditation on how losing the ones we love indelibly shapes the futures of the living, and how we ultimately find healing in the strength of family.”
—Time Magazine
"Journalist Chow writes longingly about her mother, who died from cancer, in this intimate debut about a life shaped by loss…. While deep emotion drives her writing, Chow generally avoids oversentimentality and buoys what could otherwise be an overwhelmingly despondent narrative with bursts of joy and irreverence. . . The result is a moving depiction of grief at its most mundane and spectacular."
—Publishers Weekly
"A deeply moving exploration of grief."
—Marie Claire
“I had the strange luck of going to high school with Kat Chow. Strange because I lived my days since high school wishing I had forgotten all about it. But I read Seeing Ghosts with a great sense of luck and relief that Chow’s book shares the ground with the best memoirs: that they are the archeologists of memory, unearthing places we have wavered in going. Like all books that haunt us long after reading, Seeing Ghosts is a courageous act of excavation and salvage. It is also a feat of rescue and healing.”
—Ocean Vuong, author of On Earth We're Briefly Gorgeous
“Chow’s writing is by turns resonant, hilarious, and meticulously researched, making dreams and feelings that are otherwise invisible potent and wholly tangible. Chow's scenes paint histories and emotions with the densest of feeling, as Seeing Ghosts guides us through how a life can be lived, who is left behind, and how we find ways to come together despite this. Kat Chow illustrates what it means when we’re bound to one another, excavating what we owe each other alongside what we owe ourselves. A delight and a miracle—the world is fuller, stranger, and brighter by this book’s presence.”
—Bryan Washington, author of Memorial
“With love and sorrow, Kat Chow's Seeing Ghosts takes up the daunting, difficult, essential task that falls to the children of immigrants—that of making visible the family histories that recede from us like a hazy shoreline, of pulling a lifeline out of the silence that compounds with acquiescence and loss and time. Uncertainty remains central and loss ineluctable, despite the doggedness and perspicacity of Chow’s efforts to uncover and recover; this might be the most human of all the truths in this beautiful, moving memoir.”
—Jia Tolentino, author of Trick Mirror
"In Seeing Ghosts, Kat Chow tells a story that is at once intimate and generous in its welcome, sifting through the legacy of a formative and profound loss in order to better understand her late mother, her family, and herself. This gorgeous, thoughtful memoir has much to offer, including the hard-won truth that sometimes, moving forward into an uncertain future requires us to revisit, remember, and attempt to unravel the traumas of our past."
—Nicole Chung, author of All You Can Ever Know: A Memoir
“Seeing Ghosts is truly beautiful. A balm. There is such a deep comfort in Kat Chow’s writing, in her remembrance of small things. It is a love song to loss, to family, to the power of writing things down and remembering.”
—Jacqueline Woodson, author of Red at the Bone
“How do we know our mothers? This seemed to me to be what this powerful memoir brought into focus for me. From the narrow window we have of them from childhood, expanding outward as we grow older, and then after their death, when they cannot keep their secrets from us, including that also, the result is a prismatic vision of the mother in these pages, of Chow's mother, but all our mothers. This is a book that asks us to consider if we allow our mothers to be human—and ourselves, too. A daring, loving, searing debut.”
—Alexander Chee, author of How to Write an Autobiographical Novel
Seeing Ghosts
For readers of Helen Macdonald and Elizabeth Alexander, an intimate and haunting portrait of grief and the search for meaning from a singular new talent as told through the prism of three generations of her Chinese American family.
Kat Chow has always been unusually fixated on death. She worried constantly about her parents dying—especially her mother. A vivacious and mischievous woman, Kat's mother made a morbid joke that would haunt her for years to come: when she died, she'd like to be stuffed and displayed in Kat's future apartment in order to always watch over her.
After her mother dies unexpectedly from cancer, Kat, her sisters, and their father are plunged into a debilitating, lonely grief. With a distinct voice that is wry and heartfelt, Kat weaves together a story of the fallout of grief that follows her extended family as they emigrate from China and Hong Kong to Cuba and America. Seeing Ghosts asks what it means to reclaim and tell your family’s story: Is writing an exorcism or is it its own form of preservation? The result is an extraordinary new contribution to the literature of the American family, and a provocative and transformative meditation on who we become facing loss.
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